Suffering From Business Anxiety? Here Are 6 Solutions You Should Live By Every Day
Have
you ever had a day in a business where one minute you’re elevated, on
top of the world and next minute you’re back on the ground?
Yeah, me too!
Owning a business brings so many ups and downs. All in one day. Sometimes within a few minutes.
As
an entrepreneur, you’re at war with evil uncertainty every day. Will we
bring in enough money to pay the staff this month? Will that investment
pay off? Will we lose clients?
And then, business anxiety kicks in.
Anxiety is a feeling of worry, nervousness, or unease about something with an uncertain outcome. Worrying about something that actually hasn’t happened yet.”
Guess what?
Is
it not the end of the month. Your clients are still yours. If the
investment doesn’t work out, so what, you’ll know better next time.
If
you worry about the end of the month, you can’t possibly do your best
work for your customers. Focus on doing great work now for your client
and you will never lose them.
If
you did your homework, your investment should pay off. If it doesn’t,
then it’s called failure. Something you will do over and over again
unless you build in systems and rules into your business life (more on
this later).
If
you can’t cope with failure, work on an Asda (Walmart in the U.S.)
checkout. You will get that right 999 times out of a thousand.
Sorry
for being a little hasty, but it’s the entrepreneur life we are
committed to, and I’m here to help and give you some tips on how I lead
my business and personal life to avoid business anxiety.
1. Learn to say NO
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Are you a people pleaser? I am!
It’s a great way to be, but it comes with its downfalls.
You
take on a customer that doesn’t work out to be a perfect match for
either you and for them. It happens. You work hard on the relationship
and you do your best work but the relationship still doesn’t work out.
Or
you take on more work from a customer you love, even though you know
you don’t really have the time to do it right now. You squeeze it in and
it isn’t your best work.
Learn
to say NO or get help. Your customer will respect you more. You will
keep everyone happy, including yourself and you continue doing great
work.
Related Reading: 7 Simple Ways To Say “No” by Zen Habits
2. Do your best work, don’t aim for perfection
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Is perfectionism holding you back?
There’s
always room for improvements, especially in business. You could spend
ten gruelling hours on writing the best piece of content for your blog.
You publish it, promote it and then when you analyse everything, you
will find ways you could have done better or ways to improve.
Do
your best work at that time and if you find ways to improve, great! Use
these to improve next time. Don’t let perfectionism get in the way from
actually doing things.
Be brave and put out your best work. If it’s not great this time, next time it will be better. It’s the only way to grow.
This
blog article isn’t perfect but I know I will help at least one person
and that stops me from worrying ‘what if’. I also know that it’s my best
work at this very moment and writing it is actually driving these
points even deeper into my mind. That must count for something, right?
3. Create rules
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You
should do this! You should do that! Both statements contradict each
other and you don’t know what choice to make. Have you ever felt that?
I have many times.
Rules
can be practical. They take away procrastination. Once you have written
down your rules of life and business, you don’t need to spend time
thinking what should I do here.
A
simple example could be: I’m not going to use Facebook for my business
because I want to concentrate all my time using LinkedIn to generate
enquiries. I prefer the platform and all my peers are on there. My
customers are on there, too.
Once
you have this rule imprinted in your head, no more worry from people
telling you, you’re losing money by not using Facebook, it has the whole
world on there, it’s ad platform is great and you’re missing potential
clicks.
All
this may be true, but none of this matters to you because your rule is
your rule. It’s your decision. You have a plan and you stick to it.
Related Reading: The Year of Rules — Defining Your Life in 2016 by Steven Sefton
4. Exercise
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I
recently started swimming. No headphones. No phone. No notepad.
Exercising without distractions and in silence (except for chatty women,
but I just swim away).
This
alone time with the noise of my own thoughts has helped me in so many
ways. I’m making better plans for my business and personal life. If I
have an idea whilst swimming my brain has time to think it through
instead of going straight online to get confirmation from an article
which is written by someone else.
These
moments swimming have not only expanded my thought process but they
have motivated me during the day. I normally go swimming just before
lunch, after busting out some tasks in the morning. Then, I get back to
work and implement those new ideas.
Oh, and it’s good for your health apparently.
5. Mindfulness
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My wife taught me about mindfulness. It’s something business owners don’t know how to be sometimes.
In
business, we have goals. Reach 1,000 fans on Facebook. Make 100k this
year. And so on. We’re always thinking about that end goal and sometimes
we’re not content with what’s happening right now, in this present
moment.
I ask
myself this question in the morning — What do I need to do today to make
sure that it takes me one step closer to my goals?
That
may be in health, relationships, business, wealth, spiritual and
personal growth. I have goals in all of these areas. They work like legs
of a table. If one is broken, it affects the rest.
At the end of the day I ask myself this — Did I take myself one step closer to my goals today?
If
the answer is ‘YES’ then I know today was a success and I can celebrate
that by feeling good about the day. If the answer is ‘NO’ you know what
to do tomorrow.
6. So what?
It’s ok to lose a customer. There, I’ve said it. It’s not the end of the world.
Remember
how you felt when you lost a client or customer. You have a somber
feeling come over you for a while and then you get angry and say, how
could they leave me? Then soon after, you pick yourself up and get back
to work. I bet you’ve had clients, and lost them, but now you haven’t
thought about them for a long time, right?
That is all wasted energy.
You
worry about the possibility of losing a client and when you do lose
them, you forget about them after a while anyway. Time to stop worrying
about what could happen. Work with your clients you have NOW and do your
best work for them, NOW.
If they leave, they leave. The only thing you have to do is work with integrity. Today, and every day.
Do you or have you suffered from business anxiety? I have.
It would be great to hear your thoughts and if you have any tips you would like to share, please do so in the comments below.
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